Countless heartbreaks over the years can be so devastating.
You can’t even remember how many times you’ve tried to take your own life because you were too browbeaten.
As many of you know too well, being with the wrong person is far worse than not being with anyone at all.
When you are with someone who doesn’t love you for a prolonged period of time it can warp your mind. It can make you believe that your experience with that someone is what love is supposed to feel like. Even worse, you may eventually start feeling like you can’t live without them. You begin to think that you’d rather have an abusive partner rather than be all by yourself. The result? You end up tolerating all the crap your partner throws at you. You keep thinking to yourself that maybe, just maybe, you deserve it all.
Thinking that an abusive relationship is normal and okay is indeed a hard habit to break.
Even if you’re no longer with that person – and have been single for quite some time – you may still believe that you don’t deserve to be loved. That you’re better off alone. That no one is ever going to love you.
You stop believing there is anyone out there for you and proceed to build this massive wall around you, thinking it will protect you.
You become extremely cynical of any interest someone might be showing in you, making it hard for you to start another relationship. In the back of your mind, you are always thinking that they’ll cheat on you, that they won’t treat you right, or that they will just leave you like the others, because that’s how it has always been.
It may be a long, long time, before you even think of letting anyone in. You are just too scared of the risks of letting anyone break the wall around you, so you live as if you don’t need anyone.
Meeting “THE ONE”
Love often shows up in the most unlikely places and with the most unexpected person.
No matter how tall the wall around you is, someone will come into your life when you least expect it and turn your life around. When you are destined to meet THE ONE – that one person who’s going to break all your barriers – there’s nothing you can do but submit yourself to the immeasurable and irresistible force that is love.
When you finally meet “THE ONE”, you’ll feel a bizarre mix of emotions.
When you’re finally, truly in love, you may get so excited that you feel like your heart is going to explode. You feel like a kid inside a candy store. At times, it will feel like it’s just you and that special someone, even when surrounded by a roomful of people. And all you want to do is just be with him or her every single second of your life.
Butterflies in your stomach
OMG! Being in the presence of your new found love is going to feel like it’s always the best day of your life. Aside from being excited and giddy, you are also likely to feel as if there are hundreds of butterflies fluttering around inside your stomach. It doesn’t even matter if their jokes are silly or corny, you’ll find yourself always giggling at every remark they make.
You feel alive!
When you’ve finally found THE ONE, you will never feel more alive. Spending time with the object of your affection can cause you to feel more energetic than you have ever been, even if you’ve only had a few hours of sleep. You’ll be so full of life and energy that everyone around you will notice. And because you’re genuinely happy, you will radiate all that positive energy to all the people you come in contact with.
Immortalizing that unique feeling
For the first time in forever, you’re feeling positive and hopeful about life. This is a feeling you will want to hold on to forever. One way to do that is to put what you are feeling into a song that you can listen to; something that will last a lifetime and beyond. And we can certainly help you with that. Leave it up to BringMySongtoLife.com to help you create a unique and personalized song to celebrate the newfound blessing in your life. Now, you will always have a reminder of what it means to be truly loved.